This article may be a tough pill to swallow for many men—but women are looking for the top providers. Yes, they love men that are handsome, tall, and charming. However, at the end of the day, they need someone who can take care of them and the kids.
Gents, life has always functioned this way. Nothing is new under the sun. Even in the cavemen days, the cavewomen wanted a man who could hunt and protect the family. Why are we surprised about this today?
The issue today is that women can provide for themselves as well. She can go and get a degree, start a career, or join the military. Thus, why does she need you?
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The career woman. I read a book about career women titled “Otherhood,” which gave me better insight into modern women. As powerful as career women are in the workplace and at home, they still want a strong masculine man around.
Women have an innate sense called hypergamy, meaning they want to marry “up.” And why shouldn’t they? Why do you think a woman wants to marry someone they need to babysit? At that point, they could adopt a child or rescue a dog.
Options. Even if a woman is making $100,00/year, she wants to find someone making $150,000. It may sound shallow, but think about this—she still wants the option to stay home with the children.
A woman never knows how she will react to motherhood. Some feel the urge to stay home, and others love to go back to work. Neither is wrong or right; it’s just life. Consider this choice similar to a man who has a career or became an entrepreneur.
If a woman is making $100,000/year, why on God’s green Earth would she marry a guy making $50,000/year? This move gives her no options. She has to work until the end of time, miss her chance to be a stay-at-home mother, and babysit your ass. That’s not an intriguing proposition for her.
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Saving vs. Investing. So why the heck does she need you? Well, most women are savers and not investors. Even though a woman is making $100,000/year, she lives in a lovely apartment, drives a nice car, and buys nice things.
Of course, she has an emergency fund and a retirement account, but those are not paying her current income. For the most part, women aren’t as fascinated with investing spreadsheets, plans, and articles.
Women like to budget, save, and spend the remainder. I am talking in generalities because I am sure there are some outliers. Men, when properly motivated, should handle the long-term investing, business, and passive income. That’s where you enter the building.
Why the heck does she need you? Because you can make your money earn money. You can create income streams from thin air. You offer her freedom from the 9-to-5 grind for yourself and your children. You can teach her to become a stay-at-home entrepreneur. Or can you?
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If you don’t know anything about taxes, passive income, generational wealth, and wealth creation, why the hell does she need you? Men—get it together!
Turn the tables. Let’s say you make $50,000 as a 35-year-old middle school teacher. You read the book “Rich Dad’s Cashflow Quadrant” when you were 25 years old.
Even though you are an employee, you have entrepreneurial and investor mindsets. You live below your means and invest in dividend stocks religiously.
Your first home is a duplex, where you rent the other unit, and that pays the entire mortgage. You also have a roommate on your side of the place. You are house hacking like a mad man. Your take-home after paying your mortgage is $1,000/mo.
You are an income investor, making at least an 8% dividend yield on your portfolio. You have $500,000 in your income portfolio, which pays you $3,800/mo in dividends.
You also have a blog about being an investor and teacher because most people think it’s impossible. You make $1,500/mo from your blogging career.
You’re Rich. So your job pays you $4,200/mo, but you are earning $6,300/mo in passive income. You actually make more than our $100,000 boss-woman!
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You see, most women and men don’t understand this dynamic. Your job is just something you do while you build assets. Our teacher can change the life of any woman working a job, even if she is making $300,000/year.
Our teacher can buy another duplex and cash flow immediately. He can start a YouTube to match his blog, add books, sell merchandise, affiliate marketing, and review dividend books. He can create whatever he wants while offering one-on-one tutoring to affluent children.
He understands how the world works. The secret is: the world revolves around passive income. Once you know this fact, you will become a man more remarkable than you can imagine. Life becomes ten times more straightforward, and your status with women will jump immediately.
Look “the part”. However, I am not telling you to go off and marry a modern woman. In fact, you will most likely need to travel overseas to find someone who matches your passion. Don’t worry; I wrote an entire series on how to Live Overseas on Passive Income.
But, don’t room off too quickly; you still have work to do on yourself. You have to look “the part” as well. Men, you are the prize—if you make yourself the prize. No woman wants a sloppy-ass man. Grow up and get it done.
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The book “Free Agent Lifestyle” is a great place to start. Don’t expect to get your finances in order unless your fitness and hygiene are in order. Focus on yourself before women.
You have to get on your own path. Women want a successful man. Modern women think success comes from working a job—ha ha ha! Nope!
Would you rather work a job paying you $100,000/year or earn $50,000 in passive income? If you said work is a job, you are absolutely wrong. Passive income gives you the freedom to make more passive income.
The encounter. Once you get your head on straight, get in shape, learn about and implement passive income into your lives, women will start to take notice.
They will notice you because you won’t notice them. They can sense that you are on your purpose. You are thinking about how to invest your paycheck or your next real estate move.
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Now, the $100,000 business lady wants to interject herself into a conversation with you. She will ask you what you do, and you will say a teacher. She will laugh at you inside and discard you. You can laugh at her and discard her.
You don’t need someone who cares about your career. You need someone who cares about you, but you must understand finances!!
The woman of your dreams. Eventually, you will meet another teacher or office woman with real estate and roommates. She understands passive income and living below one’s means. She is the woman of your dreams because she has humility, beauty, grace, and respect.
She understands that working a job is futile and would never brag about being an employee. She will stay home with the kids and manage properties and dividends. She is an amazing woman, and you deserve each other. (I met her!)
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But how are you supposed to find the perfect woman if you are all messed up? You have to understand money to find someone who understands money.
I was late to the party. I didn’t grow up understanding money. Lucky for me, I found an amazing wife (overseas). We have been married for 16 years, and now we are getting rich together.
My wife understands passive income. She understands the trap of being an employee. We were both late to the party, but we caught up 2.5 years ago. Now, our passive income grows every single month.
I see modern women screaming about powerful careers and just laugh to myself. Jobs are only good if you don’t need to work them. Few people can understand the feeling of earning $900/mo in dividend income or waking up to have $10 in book sales overnight.
Love & Money. Your potential wife needs you to be a provider, understand money, and free her from the bondage of working for the man.
You should want your wife to home-school your children or at least have a consistent tutor. I failed at these things because I wasn’t financially sophisticated. I won’t mess that up for my grandchildren.
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Women want a provider—plain and simple. Because most modern women don’t understand passive income, they look at earned income (job) to measure a man’s worth. Don’t fall for this trap.
You can be a plumber, teacher, cop, military person, etc., and have better finances than lawyers, doctors, and brokers. You only need to understand the concepts of investing. I highly recommend these Robert Kiyosaki books to get you started. This is how I began my journey.
- “Rich Dad Poor Dad”
- “Rich Dad’s Cashflow Quadrant”
- “Rich Dad’s Guide to Investing”
- “Retire Young Retire Rich”
- “Unfair Advantage”
Don’t worry about women that may look down on you. Chances are you haven’t put yourself in a position of power. You have to become the prize—you have to earn it because no one can give it to you.
Hit the books, get in shape, and start building passive income today. Avoid women until you can get yourself together. Your mission and purpose are more important than chasing women now. Once you get on your purpose, you will find your bride. And she will appreciate everything you do for her and your family. I promise.
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